When it comes to weddings, there's quite a bit of tradition and etiquette to consider, and in today's modern world there's issues that even Emily Post might not have thought about. Below is a list of some things that we recommend you NOT do at the next wedding you attend:
Don't Wear White
It is customary for the bride to wear white on her big day, and she should be the only person to wear white unless otherwise instructed. Wearing white to a wedding as a guest is considered rude and can be seen as trying to draw focus away from the bride. Save your white summery dresses for Easter Sunday or a garden party, and choose any other color to wear to a wedding. Examine the wedding invitation for color cues to go off of if you are unsure of the style and formality of the event.
Don't Get in the Photographer's Way
The bride and groom have likely hired a professional photographer to photograph their big day, so be sure not to get in the photographer's way during the ceremony and reception. You might think your iPhone photography skills are top-notch, but the wedding photographer is there to do his or her job to the best of his or her ability, so please refrain from jumping into the aisle to try to catch the perfect first kiss shot. If you do so, you risk ruining the unobstructed view of the professional who was hired to capture the big day, which could ultimately upset the couple. Be respectful of the photographer's space and be sure not to block his or her view from key moments during the wedding day.
Don't Ask How Much the Couple Spent on the Festivities
Quite frankly, it's none of your business. Whether you think the wedding is too plain or exquisitely over-the-top, don't ask pricing questions of the couple or their families, and keep your comments to yourself. And, this is a big one: don't complain. Period. Remember, this is a special day for the bride and groom, and they should get to enjoy it without judgement or unnecessary commentary.
Don't Bring an Uninvited Guest
You should not bring a guest to a wedding unless your wedding invitation explicitly says, "Your name and guest." It is inappropriate to RSVP for yourself and a guest, and even more so to bring a guest you didn't RSVP for if there wasn't an allowance made for said guest on your wedding invitation. If you are unsure about whether or not you are allowed to bring a guest to a wedding, it is best to check with the couple first. Weddings can be costly, and the number of guests invited directly relates to the overall cost, so consider the couple when you inquire about bringing a Plus One that wasn't invited.
Don't Overindulge.
Enjoy yourself and have a good time, but don't overdo it. You don't want to be the person who got sloppy on the dance floor and embarrassed himself. Be respectful of the couple and your fellow guests and remember you are at a once-in-a-lifetime event, not a college keg party. After all, that's what the after party is for!
At the end of the day, it's all about being respectful and considerate of the couple getting married. Wedding days are sacred and should be treated as such by all in attendance. Follow these rules to stay on the happy couple's good side and celebrate their day in a supportive and appropriate way!
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Source: About.com and Jessica Bishop
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